to find an answeryou must lose the question first.James: This is the saying for the month of February on my Zen calender and reminds me of another jewel of wisdom. That being, "Before you speak, ask yourself: Is it kind, is it true, is it necessary, does it improve upon the silence?" -Shirdi Sai Baba. It is also attributed to the Quakers.I don't always improve upon the silence but It is something that I strive toward via mindfulness, which I work on cultivating through the practice of meditation....
