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Friday, May 20, 2011

Between Wife and Lover Deposits

By Maha Acarya Lian ShengFrom the book Living This Moment of PurityQuoted by Zhiwei Zhu

 
On a sweltering afternoon, an old man came to the 50's I for a consultation. After complaining too hot a few times, this man asked for a glass of cold water.
 
I hastily went to get water and come back with three glasses of water, 2 cups of water and one small. By placing a large glass of water in front of the guest beside me and put the rest, the man asked, "Why did you bring 2 cups of water? One glass of water is enough for me. "
 
I smiled and said, "Although you think come alone, you are accompanied by an adult and a child. Do you expect I only offer water to your own with mengacuhan them? "
 
Seen horror in her face and turned pale,"Who are they?""A mother and her little girl", I replied.


"Can you drive them?""I may try it, but I can not drive them as fast as this."Then the man replied, "That's why I came here today, I hope you can solve this mystery for me."
 
The name of this man is Wang Deng. He is well-known businessman, whose name often appears in the magazine business and companies well-known enough, not only in Taiwan but also worldwide. Wang Deng has collected a lot of wealth, fame, and business success, and he also has the enviable employer attitudes. As a result, many women including his personal secretary, constantly flirting with her.
 
Wang Deng was married and had children. His family was perfect and although she put her job, and enough love to his family and give appropriate attention to their children, schools and in many ways. He realizes that having everything.
 
This is the philosophy of Wang Deng's about more than one marital relationship;
 
"This is the mandate of Heaven if men and women should live, share a bed in the marital bond. If this is breached, the relationship will be affected. From here there was chaos and strife, so people are not much different from the birds and animals.Tightly-covered meeting these relationships, one day the scandal will emerge. When that happens, one's reputation would be ruined. "
 
Wang Deng, in this case, always very careful and vigilant. At one point, Wang Deng had to go away on business and in the journey of a young woman has been told to her side. With a quick look at this woman, making her return to her past. This woman looks like her first boyfriend. Reveal their resemblance to this woman, malu2 he replied, "I wish I was him." Wang Yang Qin Deng says his name from his ID name. In recent days the meetings are very careful and pay attention Qin Wang Deng. Wang Deng felt very like to him, and praised the very good service in one night. Yang Qin replied, "As long as you happy, I'll do anything for you".
 
Since that conversation, the words make the hearts and minds wandering Wang Deng. Yang Qin beautiful figure, smile, young, freshness, gentle, all is not found from his wife.
 
As humans we are born of sexual desire, and those made out of habit tendencies of lust and sexual desire is very strong in us.Wang Deng is not a timber man.
 
Previously, his passion still be controlled by reason and morality.One night, when Yang Qin Wang Deng visited in his hotel with the intention of important documents handed to him, eventually they exceeded the limit.
 
In a momentary inadvertence, Wang Deng out of control and plunged into the abyss of suffering.Unfortunately, happiness bear the sorrow of eternal moment, Yang Qin pregnant and gave birth to a daughter.
 
Like going to hold fire with the paper is futile, will undoubtedly grow.
 
According to Yang Qin:
 
How can a woman bear the loss of virtue and good name of his relatives and friends, without revenge?
 
As a wife:
 
Who would not want to have a husband to old?Sadness pervading the rooms are quiet, and lonely all alone, like a bird in a fragrant garden of love itself, hopes fly with longer extant, with all its hopes in vain. Back to the usual situation? Goth persuasion and deception, ultimately lead to bad karma.
 
In this world, much disagreement among the women, the opposition between the daughter-in-law, the wife with a young wife, between brother-in-law, and so forth. From ancient times until now, there have been countless cases of malignancy in the history of conflict / dispute.
 
Known dispute in the royal courts, such as disputes between the empress Wu Ze Tian, ​​Lu Teng empress, the mother of the king, has done evil plans to his enemies. Widespread fear in those who know the properties of their cheating. Controlling the driving forces behind this dispute is lust, self-interest. Tolerance to the enemy is something that is impossible.
 
Women are being careful, when the struggle for a desire, their ability to be above men. As far as I am, is no exception to the nuns, to get more attention from their teachers, some nuns become servants to the monks who excel now.
 
Among them a dispute which in the end, jealousy pushing on the losing side to find a way to kill their own teachers.
 
When love turned into hatred of women, an extraordinary power driven by anger, which would seek to destroy rather than let the other side wins. Of course I do not blame solely on women. In fact Wang Deng also guilty. Once trapped, the error is not so easily rectified or erased from memory.In this state, the wife of Wang Deng refused to succumb to the young wife of her husband. Basically, Yang Qin make every effort to hold state, but his patience has limits. He also expressed frustration at the Wang Deng. Both can not accept the existence of one and another.
 
Can imagine the next suffering to be borne Wan Deng.
 
There is a Chinese proverb says:
 
"Penchant for women" will bring bad luck, if the women who blame ", if analyzed carefully, in fact the man who brought misfortune on themselves.
 
All cause is lust. Lust between couples has brought a tragic misfortune, the loss of life a person to lose the state. Very unfortunate, humans are still bound by lust game. There are until ready to sacrifice without regret, such as Chinese proverb says "more noble to die for a woman and a ghost of love".
 
In today's world many people find a place maskiat, without respecting the principle or moral. Cases of sexual harassment, adultery, fraud is not limited to women and men only, but also same-sex relationships.
 
There are so many cases that we read or hear of the news, death due to sexual abuse, wife mebunuh husband, husbands mebunuh wife, husband kill lover's wife, lover's wife killed the husband, wife killed lover's husband, husband kills wife's lover, and so forth.
 
According to statistics, 40% of homicide and suicide no relationship with romance and sexual. 40% is not directly on crime.This figure includes quite high.
 
Too many sexual conduct may also cause the loss of one's vital energy, can menyebebkan died young, cause of death could not be detected, such deaths are usually referred to "natural death".
 
I have a poem that was written in earlier writings:
 
Regarding the woman's waist,The pretty sharp two-edged sword,Where stitches are not special but ordinary,Decapitated not die instantly,But slowly flowing and dry bone marrow.
 
Lay people think sex is an activity of the happiest life experience, but in the eyes of sadhaka spiritual revelation is a disaster.
 
When lay people think as they pleased against sexual desire, they have invited disaster. The creature wise high level view of sexual trap and achieve the highest happiness and peace of mind through processing as follows:
 
1. Failure due to someone not able to control the sexual appetite.2. Boredom and restlessness due to a person's sexual desires are fulfilled but then the desire was slowly fading.3. Hatred and despair caused by sexual lust filled but then disappeared.
 
Whatever the scenario, diversion of sexual indulgence classified infinite crisis and much of his fortune.
 
Marriage between Deng and Yang Qin Wang brings discord between wives and mistresses. Initially, Wang Deng tried to keep the Yang Qin, but he was tired of the dispute and fatigue. Slowly he began to lose patience, then he realized the mistake yourself that make the prolonged suffering in quiet family at first.
 
Period of time passed, increasing hatred Yang Qin. One day, in a state of depression, he jumped into the river with his son, committed suicide along with his daughter. Tragedy like what happened from marriage more!
 
After the suicide, Wang Deng often awakened at midnight. In the circumstances it made his whole body felt cold, very scary and he can not sleep anymore. In the dark he saw the shadow of the Qin and daughter looked at him.
 
Then a strange thing happened:Wang Deng Yang Qin often feel the presence around him. At midnight, the sound of the floor as if someone was walking, the benches began to move itself, the door closed with his own, strange noises out of the wall.Wang Deng heard a small child's foot. The situation is more dire a time when the kitchen stove in a state of flame after they sure have it disabled.Very strange things. However, Wang Deng who can not sleep well and often feel the fear in his solitude, wake up and feel the whole body, including face and surrounding areas, there are bruised neck. As has been bitten by someone.
 
When Wang Deng to the temple to ask the god, the answer obtained is the "been bitten by the devil". He was treated with Hu from "Gods Five Khayangan" and affixed to the doors and windows throughout the house. His face still looks blue and swollen.
 
Later, he invited the media "Five Gods Khayangan" to his house to perform the ritual. God stretcher around his house once and then medium brandished sword of bone shark, cut off his own body until bloody, then a portrait of hu and recite the incantation. Everything has been tried but there is no progress.
 
After Wang Deng told him everything what had happened, he unbuttoned his shirt and showed his chest and back. Big, black stick to the skin. Some are reddish, bluish, similar to the former than the hot cans attached to the skin (such as the classic treatment therapies that are often used by parents) was terrible."Did you check to the doctor? ", I asked."Of course, but doctors can not find the cause of all these bruises.I've been to the temple to ask for help. God says bitten by a demon, but the rituals they do not succeed. So I came looking for you today. I hope you can treat this mystery. "
 
I asked in the spirit of Yang Qin, "how about peace?".
 
Yang Qin said, "There is no compensation that can open hatred and sadness I feel when I die".
 
I tried to explain to him, in vain attached to the cycle of hatred and suffering become immortal when a person can not let go of the past. In one life, one kill the other, the opposite happens in his next life. When did this condition will end?
 
Yang Qin then asked, "Wang Deng's wife full of jealousy, hatred and evil against me. Why did he not get the result? ".
 
I can not answer.
 
Then he replied, "I feel very unfair what happened to me, before revenge is gone, I want them to feel the consequences.
 
Then I told him, "What if I use the strength I have to evict you?".
 
"It will not work. I have the support of this decree, "Qin said, waving the black banner of the small. This little black banner from nature decreed hell. No wonder god Five Khayangan also not able to solve this problem.
 
"What if I do the crossing in order to be born again?""I do not want to", said Yang Qin."What if I have a command of the Bodhisattva Ksitigarbha"."How?", Said Yang Qin"I can tell the judge the player holding the wheel of life you and send you the 6 nature of samsara. I do not want you two, mother and child is the wild man made problem. You also will get a result from your actions. You must be aware, you should blame yourself for not controlling his own lust. You can not put all the blame on himself and his wife Wang Deng. Think again. "I issued a decree of the Bodhisattva Ksitigarbha:
 
"Panji banners reach the sky to earth, bring the crossing on the souls, with five thousand rays emitted bright colorful. Worship to the patron Bodhisattva Ksitigarbha love.
 
In an instant I remove the banner, canopy vajra with the banner appeared in the heavens, shone a bright light. Under this canopy, Bodhisattva Ksitigarbha, with majesty seated on a lotus with three light-colored gold. Ornaments glittering jewels shine and surrounding Bodhisattva.
 
Ksitigarbha golden lotus holding hands and saying,
 
Golden lotus seeds,Full Welah love,To the man on the earth,Sinarkan light on them,Buddhist holy land appears instantly.
 
In a flash from the lotus GOLD LIGHT THAT THIS illuminate Qin and his daughter, COMMITMENTS KARMA them disappear, shining LIGHT ONCE AGAIN, ALSO HATE disappeared. ANGER revenge and disappeared EVERYTHING.
 
Instantly, Yang Qin see the world as an illusory phenomenon. He is no longer bound by samsara harsh conditions, but free of this bond.
 
They both, mother and child, jumping on the lotus, the symbol kemanggalaan appeared in the sky, in the light, they were born to the Holy Land.
 
This method is "with supernatural powers to change a vacuum" exactly like this method will be used Bodhisattva Maitreya at the time of down to earth.
 
This is the Maitreya Buddha Dharma which is used to save the man.
 
This method is "transforming power of magical thinking" that will be used during the ray of Bodhisattva Maitreya Maitreya heart chakra illuminate the hearts of all human beings, would erode all the bad karma. Then it would change the hearts of all beings into the heart of Maitreya.This is a supernatural transformation of the mind. With the radiation and the results of the transformation, all human beings will be born in the Holy Land of Buddha.
 
According to my knowledge, all Buddhas and Bodhisattvas do different methods of saving people, but the result is the same:
 
Vairocara Tathagata: Bhuta Tathata (absolute or fundamental reality)Sakyamuni Tathagata: Prajna (wisdom)Bodhisattva Nagarjuna: Madhyamika (middle path)Padmasambhava: YogaBodhisattva Maitreya: Yogachara (just thoughts)Amitabha: Holy Land
 
The way that I use from the command is the same Ksitigarbha Bodhisattva Maitreya "Transformation of supernatural powers of mind." This Edict of Khayangan take across the creature to the Holy Land Buddha nature. There is no more rebirth.
 
Wang Deng began to ask, "How is this mystery solved?".By invisible, I just shook the hands of the existing decree."It is finished", I replied."What methods are you using?""Our mind is like a painting that can be a portrait alhi natural phenomena. Nothing is not created by the mind. ""What kind of method is the method of mind?", He asked"The light of the mind and spirit", I explained to Wang Deng."In the future Maitreya Bodhisattva down to earth, he would use the magical power of transformation merode mind." Three of nature (of the form, lust, and vacuum) is created from the mind.
 
All phenomena arise from consciousness. Bodhisattva Maitreya only use the light illuminates the mind and spirit of all human beings, and all thought they would be transformed into the mind of Maitreya. In the Dragon Flower Maitreya, all creatures will diseberangkan.
 
When he heard this, he said, "I also want to learn and practice Buddhism.""Great, someone to learn and practice the teachings of the Buddha saw human life full of lust and attachment. The nature of lust is only temporary stimulation, and novelty. In reality, delusion and confusion while will disturb the peace of the spiritual. When happiness does not come back no more, feel lost, this is not true happiness.
 
"What should I do as a Buddhist?""First you have to abolish lust, anger and delusion of mind.""Reward from doing that?"."The heart will be filled with light."
 
Wang Deng knelt down and lifted the teacher to Me.After returning home, all the strange events disappear altogether.Return to normal sleep. All bruises bruising black, blue disappeared. Joint pain cured. He cried loudly, "Living Buddha Lian Sheng was unimaginable! Lu Sheng-yen are unimaginable!.
 
The entire family of Wang Deng raise teacher and became a Buddhist, they start doing good deeds with sincerity and full of effort.
 
Note: This article also describes the method and Rescue Ksitigarbha Bodhisattva Maitreya Bodhisattva.

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